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How to explain to a child . . .
What to tell a child . . .
You Have the Right to Be Safe!
in your home...
Don't Try To Get
In The Middle Of The Abuse!
It is not safe for you to try to stop the abuse or to protect your mom. Remember, it is your job to keep yourself safe!
If You Can
Get To A Phone Safely, Call 9-1-1!
Tell the police where you are and what is happening. The person on the phone will talk to you until the police arrive. Remember, you don't need money if you use a pay phone.
Get To A Safe
Place!
Practice how to get out of your home safely. Which doors, windows, or stairs would be best? Which neighbor can you go to for help?
It's Not Your
Fault!
Remember, the violence against you or against your mom is never your fault. No one has the right to hurt or threaten you.
Are you Afraid...At home?
At school?
Tell a safe person!
If you need to talk with a safe person about any of these
problems, tell:
- A Teacher
- A Crisis Advocate
- Your School Police Officer
- Someone in your Family
- Your School Counselor
- Someone at your Place of Worship
- Another Person you Trust
What is Domestic violence?
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Domestic Violence is when one person uses hitting,
hurting, name-calling, or threats to make another
person do what they say. It happens with people that
are married, divorced, dating or living together.
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Domestic violence happens because one person believes
they have a right to have power and control over their
partner. It is not about anger, alcohol or drugs.
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Domestic violence occurs in every part of our
society.
What is sexual assault?
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Sexual assault is any touching in any place or in any
way that makes you feel uncomfortable.
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It is OK to say NO if someone tries to touch you in
ways that make you feel frightened, confused or
uncomfortable.
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It is not your fault if someone touches you in a way
that is not OK. You don't have to keep secrets about
those touches.
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Some secrets are good secrets. An example of a good
secret is a birthday gift. A bad secret would be if
someone touched you and then told you not to tell
anyone.
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It is never too late to ask for help. You can keep
asking until you get the help you need.
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